Beckwith Golf Club

I have just started golfing. My husband who went here regularly for years with a group of lads took another friend who has taken up golf recently and another friend who is a reg golfer. The older man who was working that day was disrespectful to us. We allowed teams to go ahead because we were 4 and newbies and he stopped a couple of times to tell us we were too slow. He told my friends two of which golf that they needed to golf from the womens tee of. After our game was done he basically told my friends they should not golf here they should go to a par 3. I was so disappointed. I was looking forward to the game and was made to feel I just wasn't welcome here. I am hoping that it was just this one employee who is like this.