What kind of golfer are you?

There are few more competitive golfers on the planet than Rory McIlroy. This reaction is from his epic 2016 Ryder Cup match with Patrick Reed.

What kind of golfer are you?

It's a philosophical question. But if you want to derive maximum enjoyment and edification from playing golf - if you want the time and money it costs to play golf to feel worth it, at the end of the day - you need to have an answer to it.

Having played thousands of rounds of golf in my life, it's become apparent that there are two general types of golfers in the world: recreational golfers and competitive golfers.

Do you know which one you are?

An individual golfer can certainly exhibit traits of both groups. I would classify myself as a competitive golfer - I keep my score and statistics for most every round I play. But if I'm out by myself, especially on a course that invites creative play, I can never resist hitting a few extra shots just for fun, too.

You may feel the same way, but in the end, one of these two categories should describe your general approach to the game

Competitive golfers

Tiger Woods approaches a green at Robert Trent Jones Golf Club during the 2005 Presidents Cup.

Not to be pedantic, but Merriam-Webster defines the word "compete" this way: "to strive consciously or unconsciously for an objective."

That's a pretty broad definition, and in golf, there are all kinds of objectives that you might strive for in your quest to derive gratification from the game. Most importantly, you don't have to be a low-handicap player or a serious tournament junkie to consider yourself a competitive golfer.

If you really want to break 100, 90 or 80, you're a competitive golfer.

If you're searching for ways to drive it 10 yards farther, fix your slice, or get up and down from greenside bunkers more often, you're a competitive golfer.

If the notion of playing the courses the professional tours play excites you, you're a competitive golfer.

If your regular foursome plays for anything when they convene - even a dollar or a post-round beer - you're a competitive golfer.

If you keep a USGA Handicap, you're a competitive golfer.

If you usually keep score, even while playing by yourself, you're a competitive golfer. (I happen to think this is one of the greatest aspects of golf: the golf course is always your real adversary, so solo golf can be a competition, because Old Man Par is always there.)

In short, competitive golfers tend to seek to spend their time around the game chasing some sort of objective. Again, actual skill is not a determining factor. If the pursuit of playing better - whether it's winning your state amateur or just beating your buddies - excites you, then you're a competitive golfer. Whether you struggle to break 100 or are on the PGA Tour does not matter.

Recreational golfers

We often see Bill Murray on the golf course during the AT&T Pebble Beach National Pro-Am, but he's always having a ton of fun.

Merriam-Webster has two subtly different definitions for "recreation." The second one is what matter here: "a means of refreshment or diversion."

At its most basic level, golf blends the pleasures of hiking and museum-going. A golf course is a form of sculpture that you interact with, by guiding a golf ball from point A to point B, usually 9 or 18 times over the course of a few hours. You don't have to care about how many individual attempts it takes to complete that task in order to derive pleasure from the process. People naturally tend to enjoy swinging a stick at an object, and golf provides a context for that sort of violent act that doesn't end in jailtime.

After all, being on a golf course - standing under a bright, open sky, feeling the turf underfoot, smelling the grass, hearing the wind rustle the trees while birds chirp - is a true diversion from being indoors. The physical act of swinging a club makes for an invigorating alternative to the decidedly anti-physical act of, say, sitting behind a desk or watching television. If these aspects of golf are what appeal most to you, you're a recreational golfer.

If you play golf mainly for exercise, you're a recreational golfer.

If you play golf mainly to socialize with your friends and drink a few beers, you're a recreational golfer.

If you don't get upset and instead laugh after a bad shot, you're a recreational golfer.

If the majority of your golf is played at charity scrambles, you're a recreational golfer.

If you tend to rake back five-footers in order to avoid the potential annoyance of missing, you're a recreational golfer.

Luckily, the tent of golf is huge. There's no one proper way to enjoy the game. The only way to go wrong is to mis-match the places where you play the game with your own approach.

How to choose the right course(s) for your approach to golf

One good rule of thumb is to take clues from a course's scorecard.

Due to its size and range of golf offerings, Myrtle Beach is a perfect example of a place where the two main types of golfer can have a great time. But they will maximize their enjoyment if they can pick certain courses according to their own approaches to the game.

When I lived in the Myrtle Beach area, I played the majority of my golf at Pawleys Plantation Golf & Country Club, a Jack Nicklaus Signature course known for its scenic stretch of back-nine, marshside holes.

In addition to being an attractive golf course, Pawleys Plantation happens to be one of the two or three hardest golf courses in the area, which runs from Pawleys Island in the south across the North Carolina border some 65 miles north.

In short, Pawleys Plantation is better suited to competitive golfers than recreational golfers, because its teeth comes in the form of smallish, angled greens, deep bunkers and a number of pesky water hazards. As a competitive golfer, I love it. Having played it hundreds of times on family vacations and while I lived in South Carolina, it has helped shape my game.

Pawleys Plantation tests you from first tee to 18th green, with no real let-up. So if you're the type of golfer for whom fun is the main idea, the stern challenges it serves up might wear on you, and end up giving you something different than you bargained for, especially if you don't play from the right set of tees

Does this mean that every recreational golfer should steer clear of Pawleys Plantation? Not necessarily, because the views across Waccamaw Neck on the 12th, 13th and 16th holes supply exactly the joy in nature recreational golfers seek. I would just advise bringing some extra golf balls for the journey.

On the other side of the Myrtle Beach coin, the West Course at Myrtle Beach National is an ideal course for recreational golfers. The sub-70 Rating and 118 Slope from the White tees are among the lowest in the area, and the absence of real estate around the West Course appeals to all golfers, but especially those for whom the enjoyment of nature (and lack of out-of-bounds stakes) is an important aspect of the game. The bunkers are well-placed but fairly shallow, forced carries over water are limited and the beers from the beverage cart and the clubhouse bar are cold.

Does this mean competitive golfers should steer clear? Not at all. Just know that some wayward shots will be forgiven and the test won't be as rigorous as what you're used to.

Another great example of places where you'll want to tailor your itinerary to your tastes is links golf. This year's Open host, Carnoustie, is known as one of links golf's toughest tests. It's a must-play for hardcore competitive types to be sure, but more recreational players might derive more pleasure from a game at nearby Monifieth or Panmure, where the turf is firm, the holes wander through dunes, but you won't be brought to your knees by the challenge.

The list of the best Scottish links for the less-competitive set would include Cruden Bay and North Berwick, where quirky features might put off the most ardent scorecard-and-pencil competitive types. That said, both are wonderful for match play.

So...what kind of golfer are you?

This way of looking at yourself works best if you think of it as a spectrum. If you find yourself at the "competitive" end, certain golf courses are going to captivate you. If you fall toward the "recreational" end, those same golf courses might rub you the wrong way.

In the end, though, the greatest courses manage to be the ones from which the largest percentage golfers derive enjoyment, whether it be the gratification of honing their skills or the mere pleasure of being outside and smacking that little white ball around for a while. I've found that the courses at places like Streamsong and Sand Valley bridge these two factions by simultaneously testing golfers who constantly evaluate their skills and delighting golfers who just want an interesting place to hit the ball for a while.

Do you consider yourself more of a competitive golfer or a recreational golfer? What courses best serve your style of golf? We want to hear from you - let us know below in the comments.

Tim Gavrich is a Senior Writer for GolfPass. Follow him on Twitter @TimGavrich and on Instagram @TimGavrich.
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I’m a I am a competitive golf for it I love to compete in the game if I’m not competing I’m now feel like I’m playing golf the course that I have played the most is that the Bethpage black golf course

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I like to play a course a couple of times first as recreational than as a competitive golfer the only tome I don’t care for a course is when I hit the ball in the fairway never to be seen again because the ground sucked it up

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My point is why do many golfers seem to have thisthing were they have to gaine that extra 10 yards over eveyone becaues all thats needed is to get the ball on the fairway think about it not hard really is it

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Competitive golfer, but seek coutses that are not an impossibe challenge. Though I hate losing and want to be challenged. I still seek to enjoy the process.

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I play the game either way depending on who I play with. As long as I can play. I would play in a parking lot. Love the game

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While I do enjoy working on my game and try to improve as much as the next guy, I would say I'm becoming more of a recreational golfer. I am now 45 and battling diabetes. I play golf to reduce stress and I walk the course to help lose weight. It seems that nothing helps me to simply relax as much as a good time on the Golf course. I also love to hunt and fish. However, I noticed that with hunting and fishing I have to make myself stay in hopes of things getting better, but with Golf I have to make myself go home or I would stay forever.

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I’m always looking for something with diversity of shots and elevation changes. The higher the slope, the better! I live in flat Florida so any break from that is always welcome...undulating greens are always great to test your reading and execution. I favor courses that let you pick your shot shape, trajectories and so forth. I don’t like courses that ask you to hit only one type of shot into the greens or off the tee.

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Great article Tim.

I am definitely a competitive golfer, but when I walk off the course, I find it easy to joke about some of my mis-hits, 3 putts, etc. However, I have a long memory and I quickly revert back to my competitive nature as soon as I hit the tee box again, remembering not to re-visit some of my previous errors.

Finally, as for the type of courses I like to play - the tougher the course, the more I like it. Masochistic - no? :)


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Thanks for the kind words. I am in a similar boat as you - I always want to play my best and it's difficult to let go fully of my failures on the course. I'm in awe of how so many of the best players appear either unbothered by bad shots or only let themselves be annoyed for a few seconds. I've tried to work on that over the years; it's a long battle!

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Interesting and spot on. I play a variety of courses along the Grand Strand and elsewhere. Pawleys Plantation is a competitors course for certain, and I love the challenges. My wife is a recreational golfer and she loves the beauty. Ditto for Caledonia. We both love North Berwick because anyone can find what they are looking for there. That is the mark of a great course. Pebble Beach and the Old Course are the most famous courses that have something for everyone.

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Having played Pawleys Plantation probably 400+ times in my life (my parents have a condo on the course), I know exactly what you mean. The demands of the course toughened up my golf game, but some of my best formative golf memories are of walking those marsh-side back-nine holes at dusk, hitting three or four balls and just taking in the scenery without worrying too much about score.

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